The Iceberg Method Diagnose your...
1. toxic behaviors
2. distorted thoughts
3. damaged emotions
4. deceitful desires
5. Enjoy God
Cultivate...
6. divine desires
7. healing emotions
8. renewing thoughts
9. Godly behaviors
Five Key Scriptures The Motivation - "Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance? (Romans 2:4 - ESV)
The Vision - "His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’" (Matthew 5:21 - ESV)
The Inspiration - "If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you." (Romans 8:11 -ESV)
The Method - "...if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." (Romans 8:13b - ESV)
The Goal - "I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." (Romans 12:1-2 - ESV)
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By Rob Jackson, on March 29th, 2012 In my last free teleseminar for women, I talked about how identity in Christ overcomes codependency. In fact, staying mindful of our sure identity in Christ is foundational for both recovery and spiritual formation.
I drew my inspiration from Paul’s first letter to the Christians at Corinth. I think it’s particularly interesting that before addressing their . . . → Read More: Seven Characteristics of Your Identity in Christ
By Rob Jackson, on March 8th, 2012 What is a Human Being?
I was a preemie, born six weeks early, and they tell me my first 48 hours were touch-and-go. My wife is the product of an unwanted pregnancy, born just a couple of years before Roe vs. Wade would made it legal for her birth mother to have killed her. And, . . . → Read More: The Proper Care and Feeding of the Soul – Part 1
By Rob Jackson, on February 29th, 2012 Suffering as proof of God’s love?
In my last two posts, I wrote about our remarkable capacity for avoiding pain, often through drugs like food, alcohol, or porn that actually make the problem worse. Last week I may have surprised some of you with the claim that jumping into the opposite ditch (getting rid of . . . → Read More: Purposeful Pain
By Rob Jackson, on February 22nd, 2012 Advancing, yet losing ground
“Life has never been easy, but today the scope of problems that befall us is greater than ever before. Up until this last hundred years, humans were expected to deal only with their immediate environment. If they were hungry, they planted grain, went fishing, or foraged. If their children cried or . . . → Read More: Progressive Pain
By Rob Jackson, on February 15th, 2012 What’s the connection?
“All men seek happiness. This is without exception. Whatever different means they employ, they all tend to this end. The cause of some going to war, and of others avoiding it, is the same desire in both, attended with different views. The will never takes the least step but to this . . . → Read More: Pain versus Pleasure
By Rob Jackson, on February 8th, 2012 Recovering through Constant Friendship
If you’re like me, you don’t enjoy the mundane of recovery. But do you enjoy the God of recovery?
Last week we looked at Martha’s ‘mechanical’ approach to serving Christ and compared it to Mary’s relational approach. This week I want to examine just how Mary demonstrates her enjoyment of God, . . . → Read More: Enjoying God More…
By Rob Jackson, on February 6th, 2012 Beginning tonight I’m offering a free, weekly men’s teleseminar.
Throughout February I want to explore what you think is most lacking and needed in the Christian men’s community. And during the first week of March I will offer an online survey so that I can gather from you, your best ideas on how to proceed.
Many of . . . → Read More: Monday Night Teleseminars for Men
By Rob Jackson, on February 3rd, 2012 One of the the most significant themes that runs throughout the Bible is that of separation. God calls his people to himself, and this requires separation from the world. He sets us apart for his glory, and we are the beneficiaries of his intimacy.
Nevertheless in every age, men and women have found that this . . . → Read More: Greater Sexual Integrity with God
By Rob Jackson, on January 31st, 2012 Singing the bookstore blues Browsing the local bookstore reveals shelf after shelf of recovery books. Have you ever found yourself frustrated and confused, trying to decide which one will truly change your life? You may even have your own library of self-help books collecting dust and testifying to failed attempts at transformation.
So, which of . . . → Read More: The Mary and Martha Approaches to Recovery
By Rob Jackson, on December 5th, 2010 If you or someone you love struggles with porn and masturbation, please watch my video. Then, if you need to process what you’ve learned, call me toll free at 1.888.891.4673 or 1.719.440.4893. I’m here to serve you.
Rob Jackson – Freedom from Porn & Masturbation from Pure Passion on Vimeo.
. . . → Read More: Freedom from Porn and Masturbation Video
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Help for you! Rob Jackson, MS, LPC developed The Iceberg Method for his own recovery from depression, panic disorder, and love addiction. Twenty-five years later, he shares insights into how you can customize his recovery method, and embrace your own recovery challenge.
If you're needing help, contact us today at 1.888.891.4673.
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